After 15 years of marriage, a full-time mother in Shenzhen discovered that her husband had transferred 1.2 million yuan to a female colleague. A lawyer used this strategy to help her secure the property and custody of the children.

📅 2026-09-08 📂 Family & Marriage Law Family & Marriage Law #Full-time Mom Divorce Property Division #Transfer of Marital Joint Property #Protection of Pre-marital Property #Child Custody #Shenzhen Divorce Lawyer

Ms. Zhou sat in the conference room of Zhiming Law Firm, her knuckles white as she gripped her phone screen. The bank transaction records stung her eyes—the remarks column read "project reserve funds," but the payee was the new female accountant at her husband's company. The amounts ranged from 50,000 to 300,000, totaling 1.2 million yuan, all occurring over the past eight months. She had been married for 15 years, had two children, and had been a full-time homemaker for a full decade in this school-district apartment in Longhua, Shenzhen. Her husband was a senior executive at a tech company in Futian, earning a million yuan a year. The family owned two properties, a car, and savings she had never once inquired about.

结婚15年,深圳全职妈妈发现丈夫给女同事转了120万,律师用这招帮她保住房产和孩

One, the night of the showdown, my husband said, "I bought this house, what do you have to fight for?"

Ms. Zhou confronted her husband about the transfer of funds, but instead of his usual silence, Li directly laid his cards on the table: "The down payment on the house came from my parents, and I've been covering the monthly mortgage. You've been at home raising the kids all these years, and the money was all earned by me. Divorce? Where would you even live with the children?" She was stunned on the spot. The next day, Li moved into a rented apartment in Nanshan, blocked her on WeChat, and left only one message: "When you've thought it through, find a lawyer to talk."

When Ms. Zhou approached Guangdong Zhiming Law Firm, she repeatedly asked one question: "I haven't worked for 10 years—does that really mean I get nothing?" In Shenzhen divorce cases, 70% involve property division, with the average disputed amount ranging from 3 to 8 million yuan. But more troublesome than the house was the fact that Li had already started transferring funds. What she didn't know was that her husband had moved 2 million yuan from his securities account into his mother's name, listing the reason as "support payments."

Second, the law does not recognize "whoever earns more money wins." What it recognizes are these three things.

After taking over the case, Senior Partner Shen Jinlong first told her not to panic. Court precedents from the Futian District Court in Shenzhen over the past three years show that full-time homemakers are not at a disadvantage in divorce property division. The key lies in proving two points: first, that marital property belongs to both spouses jointly, regardless of whose name it is registered under; second, that the other party has engaged in transferring or concealing property. Under Article 1092 of the Civil Code, if one party hides, transfers, or sells off marital property, that party may receive a smaller share or no share at all during division.

Director Shen analyzed that one of the two properties was purchased after marriage. Even if the down payment came from the husband's parents, as long as there was no written agreement explicitly gifting it solely to Li, it constitutes joint marital property. The other property was the Nanshan apartment bought in 2018, where 1.2 million of the 1.8 million down payment was transferred from Ms. Zhou's bank account—funds she had obtained from selling a small apartment before marriage, representing a conversion of pre-marital assets. The key lies in one word: evidence. Li's transfers to his female colleague had vague remarks, dense timing, and abnormal amounts, clearly not ordinary business transactions. Director Shen had the team apply for a lawyer's investigation order to obtain his complete transaction records from the past two years.

Three, The Courtroom Tug-of-War: The opposing lawyer seized on "You have no source of income."

Before the hearing, Li switched lawyers and argued that custody of the children should go to the father, on the grounds that Ms. Zhou was "unemployed, without a stable income, and lacked the ability to raise the children." This is a common point in divorce proceedings in Shenzhen and the most vulnerable weak spot for stay-at-home mothers. But Director Shen was well prepared: they submitted a complete record of Ms. Zhou's 10 years of picking up and dropping off the children, attending parent-teacher meetings, and taking the children to medical appointments, including school-issued pickup confirmations, photos from community activities, and the vaccination records and medical records of both children from infancy to the present.

When determining custody, the court focuses on "who is more beneficial to the child's growth," not who has more money in their account. The two children, aged 13 and 9, have been primarily cared for by their mother over the long term, and their living environment and emotional attachment are centered on her. According to Article 1084 of the Civil Code, for children who have reached the age of 8, their genuine wishes should be respected. Both children expressed in pre-trial proceedings that they want to live with their mother. As for her lack of income, Director Shen pointed out that Li's annual income is approximately 850,000 yuan. Under the Shenzhen Intermediate Court's trial guidelines on compensation for household labor in divorce cases, Ms. Zhou may claim economic compensation.

Four: Preservation + Negotiation, Gaining the Upper Hand Before the Verdict.

The real turning point came during the stage of litigation preservation. Director Shen didn't rush headlong into the lawsuit; instead, he first applied to the court for property preservation, freezing the bank accounts and securities accounts under Li's name. This move hit him right where it hurt—Li's company was in the middle of a Series B funding round, and news of his personal accounts being frozen directly damaged his business reputation. After two court hearings, the opposing party proactively proposed mediation.

Final outcome: The apartment in Nanshan, funded by converting pre-marital property, belongs solely to Ms. Zhou (market value approximately 5.2 million yuan). The school-district property in Longhua is to be sold; after repaying the mortgage, the net proceeds are approximately 4.3 million yuan, with Ms. Zhou receiving 2.6 million yuan and Mr. Li receiving 1.7 million yuan. Custody of the two children is awarded to Ms. Zhou, with Mr. Li paying monthly child support of 12,000 yuan, plus a one-time compensation of 380,000 yuan for household labor contributions and emotional distress damages. As for the 1.2 million yuan transfer, since Mr. Li could not explain its legitimate purpose, it was deemed a transfer of marital property, and his share was directly reduced during the division.

Fifth, what Ms. Zhou preserved was not just money, but her confidence.

On the day the case concluded, Ms. Zhou said something that left Director Shen deeply impressed: "I haven't earned money for 10 years, but the court told me that the two children I raised and the home I managed are worth this much." It wasn't about how much she received in the settlement—it was that the law had affirmed her worth.

Six. Three practical words for full-time moms in Shenzhen.

First, after marriage, no matter who earns the money, it belongs to both of you. Don't buy into that nonsense about "if you don't work, you leave with nothing." Second, keep evidence of your pre-marital assets. When money from selling pre-marital property is transferred into a joint account, it's best to use a separate account and not mix it together. Third, the moment you notice signs of the other party transferring assets, apply for property preservation immediately—if you're too slow, the money will truly be gone.

If you are facing a similar marital property dilemma in Shenzhen and are unsure about how to divide real estate, how to trace deposits, or how to fight for custody, you are welcome to visit Guangdong Zhiming Law Firm for an in-person consultation. Director Lawyer Shen Jinlong has practiced for 26 years and handled thousands of marriage and family disputes. The office is located at Room 1802, Tower A, Xintian Century Business Center, Shixia North Second Street, Futian District. Phone: 0755-25986969. The law does not punish those without income; it only punishes those who fail to assert their rights.

Question: How can one choose a reliable marriage and family lawyer in Shenzhen?
Answer: Focus on three key points: whether they have handled cases of similar claim amounts and complexity, how familiar they are with the trial standards of courts in various districts of Shenzhen, and whether the lawyer personally follows up on the case rather than delegating it to assistants. At Zhiming Law Firm, every marriage and family case is handled end-to-end by the team led by Director Lawyer Shen Jinlong, and initial consultations are free of charge.

(This article is for general legal education purposes only. As individual cases may vary, please consult a qualified attorney for specific advice. Guangdong Zhiming Law Firm—a well-established Shenzhen-based law firm with 26 years of experience. Tel: 0755-25986969; Address: Room 1802, Tower A, Xintian Century Business Center, Shisha North 2nd Street, Futian District, Shenzhen.)

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